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Narcissistic Demons

  Narcissistic Demons Photo by Kyle Cleveland on Unsplash There is a group that uses Quora as a jump off point for their cyber crime and stalking and abuse. They are organized and they have a game plan that they execute to destroy a victim over time. This gang is made up of trans, gay, and radical feminists that believe they are the next evolution of humanity. Those are their words. They use Quora as a jump off point to hack into the lives of their targets. They will get into every aspect of your life by reading every text message, every email you ever sent and they then put cameras in your house and assign illegal immigrants to 12 hour shifts to watch you and report back to them anything that they can either make money off of or use as blackmail evidence to get you into slavery. That’s right, slavery — once they have blackmail evidence on you then they jam you into circumstances you would never have agreed to had they not been able to force it. One of the most commo...
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The Big Mistakes with Teams

 The Big Mistakes With Teams I’m going to explain something here so I don’t want anyone to take this personally as it’s not about anyone specific but it’s about a general observation I’ve had in my experience that could be something someone could learn from to prevent themselves from being misperceived. It revolves around the idea of someone telling a traumatic story about themselves and a second person hearing the story and feeling that it wasn’t that big of a deal due to either a lowered empathic response or some conflict that is present between the two individuals. Sometimes in this situation the second person will invalidate the first person by comparing their situations. It often comes off as trying to assert that you are an expert on the human condition. When a person drills down to the root of the issue, often It is an attempt to invalidate anything else anyone has gone through by saying ‘well, I went through (insert situation here) so that means everyone else’s story t...
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The Bible is against divorce. If you're a Christian who's married and your spouse cheats on you with another person, is that a good reason to get a divorce?

  The Bible is against divorce. If you're a Christian who's married and your spouse cheats on you with another person, is that a good reason to get a divorce? This is a subjective decision in my book. It comes down to the betrayal and whether or not you can get past it. Ultimately, it will be your decision and no one should shame you for it. To me the idea of sticking around comes down to whether there has been a change in the person. If they show genuinely that they feel bad about what they did to you and that has manifest itself into real long term change of behavior then it might be worth giving him a chance but, there has to be a desire to change and he has to acknowledge that it takes a long time to build trust back up after a major betrayal and that is what he did was betray you in the worst way imaginable. If getting past it is not something that you feel you can do then I’d consider the following: Those who let society dictate that they must live in a perpetual hell to ...
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If somebody can't take responsibility, should it be forced onto them?

  If somebody can't take responsibility, should it be forced onto them? We are a product of our environment and our circumstances. When you are surrounded by things that pull you down and when you are sabotaged perpetually you eventually become what everyone tells you that you are. You eventually believe it because all of the evidence around you points to that being reality and when you are someone that carries that internal shame from childhood then you are far more likely to accept this as the truth than someone who has a strong sense of self, strong sense of being and knows what they are worth. This is what makes narcissists vulnerable and invulnerable at the same time. The pathological ones have already grappled with this when they were a kid and they opted for rewriting life into a fantasy story that has them as the star and nothing that they do can be held to them for accountability. They simply deny reality and replace it with their rewritten one because it’s more pleasant f...
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Narcissism: A Complete Summary

Narcissism: A Complete Summary Photo by  Vitaly Gariev  on  Unsplash A narcissist is someone who is grandiose and feels that they are larger than life. They have this feeling of being special or they need to affiliate with something that they find special or elite in order to feel like they have value. The have an entitlement which makes them think they are above the law and above the rules but that the rules still need to apply to everyone else. They view everything as a hierarchy and those that they view below them will be treated like total trash and they will believe that they can do as much damage to them as they want, as they see the person as a lower lifeform. Those that they view above themselves though, they will kiss their butt to remain in favor. Narcissists act arrogant and haughty all of the time so when they speak about something they will have some angle as to how it makes them ‘the best’ and they will do so overtly if they are the grandiose style narcissis...
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Psychopaths and Love

  Psychopaths and Love One thing I’ve heard a lot about from psychopaths is that the person they fall in love with tend to have specific traits that are rare — but they love those traits specifically because of what it gives to the psychopath — thereby not actually loving the person for who they are but more what they provide. Those traits are typically: Someone that will put up with their shit because they know they see themselves as above the law and don’t have follow the rules that they expect everyone else to follow — it is very rare finding someone that will have this trait but its not the person that is loved its the fact that the person won’t leave while they treat them like garbage. The person is mentally resilient enough to put up with the ‘boredom’ tortures that the psychopath unleashes on them. When they get bored its like acid in the veins and for some reason nearly universally, it’s attacking the psychology or causing reactions out of their partner because it entertain...
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Acceptance: It is what it is

  Acceptance: It is what it is Photo by  Daniel Uvegård  on  Unsplash Betrayal. Betrayal is hard to accept. It’s hard to get past when you know what you’ve been through and you can’t articulate it in a way that really provides the weight of the gravity and a sense of the urgency that the situation truly should call for. You find out that no one cares what happened to you. No one cares how wrong it was, or how illegal it was. They just want you to shut up so they don’t have to hear about it. So you found yourself discriminated against, you were shunned, you were isolated, and were systematically picked apart by the very people that you should have been able to trust. Then, after it all if you try to explain it to anyone you’re further isolated by their invalidation and inability to understand the true magnitude of what you’d been through. It amounts to a total betrayal by everyone you knew and the idea of having to let it go and let those people get away with it is a ...
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